Greetings from cyberspace! Remember my earlier post being that I hate Valentines Day? That one should say Happy Valentine Day and be nicer to that special person in your life? I guess the BF didn't get the memo. Let me set this up for.
He has on old friend that is visiting. We were going to go meet him for dinner. The restaurant we wanted to go to is close to my work. I carpooled this morning so that he can pick me up. So what does he want? He wants my carpool person to drop me off because he doesn't want to take a slight detour to come pick me up. So he wants to inconvenience someone else to make it easier on him. That would mean she would need to get out of the carpool lane (which is a hassle) and she has an appointment after work that if she does that it will make her late. Does he care. NOPE! My response.... He can go by himself. I will just go home... and... oh I don't know, maybe watch my shows. Get drunk by myself. Make plans on moving out.... Grrrrrrrrrrrr
Yeah, Happy Whatever Day!!!
That was NOT very thoughtful of him... as you said, go ahead and buy a pint of ice cream (this IS an emergency! --semi kidding), and watch some good movies all by yourself. Worry about it again after sufficient sleep.
ReplyDeleteNot cool. Are you serious about moving out?
ReplyDeleteLong time reader, new poster. What do youngest out of this relationship? You seem to shoulder a disproportionate share of the costs and little/no emotional support from your BF. i know posting about the bad is a good way to vent but what is the good? Questions for you - obviously don't have to answer here
ReplyDelete@ SAK - Thank you for reading.
ReplyDeleteOf recent, yes - I have had the disproportional share of costs.
Yes - I have had VERY little if no emotional support from him.
The Good in Our Relationship - Right now, can't think of any. No real benefits besides living in a nice house.
Awww I'm so sorry. I've never been big on VDay. Silly holiday. Enjoy your "me" time - sounds like it will be more fun anyway.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. That is not considerate of him at all!
ReplyDeleteYou are not married to this man. You do not have children by this man. I want what is best for you and will support you, but living in a relationship where you are 90% and he is 10% is not a happy one. I know this from experience. I love you and want you to be happy. You are worth so much. It angers me for you. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteJust moved from Anonymous to a nickname...been following for a few months. So sorry to hear this, you just don't seem happy as things are. Take care of yourself. Best of luck!
ReplyDeleteIs this how you deserve to be treated?
ReplyDeleteWhat Kim said! Hugs :)
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